So you have decided to propose! How exciting. As an NYC proposal photographer, I can help you pull off the perfect surprise proposal and capture this unforgettable moment. Executing a surprise proposal isn’t always easy. Between keeping the surprise and coordinating all the different parts, having an NYC proposal photographer to help guide you along the way will make things go that much more smoothly. I love helping plan proposals in NYC, as it is one of the most romantic cities to get engaged in after all! So I’ve created this guide to help you get started planning your NYC proposal.

Overall, my biggest piece of advice is to consider your other half when making any decision about the proposal. If you keep them in mind every step of the way, you really can’t go wrong!

Choosing the Location for Your NYC Proposal

Tips from a NYC Proposal Photographer

When searching for where to propose in NYC, a great place to start is my location guide for engagement sessions in NYC. Aside from this list, the tips below can help you begin when making a decision on your NYC proposal location. Overall, choosing a location that resonates with who you are as a couple will be the best route.

1. Personal Significance:

Consider locations in New York City that hold special meaning for you and your partner. It could be where you first met, had your first date, or shared special moments together. Proposing in a place that holds sentimental value adds an extra layer of emotion to the moment.

2. Scenic Beauty

Look for locations with stunning views, picturesque settings, or natural beauty (not hard to find in NYC). It could be a park, a waterfront view, a rooftop, or a landmark. A visually captivating backdrop can enhance the romantic atmosphere as well as create a memorable experience.

3. Privacy and Intimacy

Consider the level of privacy you desire for your proposal. Some people prefer a secluded and intimate setting, while others enjoy the energy of a public place. Ensure that the location aligns with your partner’s comfort level and preferences.

4. Season and Weather

Keep in mind the time of year and the weather conditions. If you have a preference for outdoor proposals, consider the season and choose a location that will provide the desired ambiance. If you opt for an indoor proposal, select a venue that complements your vision.

5. Surprise Factor

Consider the element of surprise. Choose a location that your partner may not expect or where they won’t immediately suspect your intentions. It could be a hidden gem or a unique and unexpected spot that adds an element of surprise and delight to the proposal.

6. Accessibility and Logistics

Ensure that the location is easily accessible for both you and your partner. Consider transportation, parking, and any necessary permits or reservations. Plan ahead to ensure a smooth and stress-free experience.

Are you still stuck on picking a location for your NYC proposal?

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Devise a Plan to Get Her There + Keep the Proposal Surprise

First, you’ll want to consider how much of a surprise you want the proposal to be. Do you want her to be completely swept off her feet? Do you want to drop her some hints or clues? Is she already onto you and you need to throw her off?

In order to keep the proposal a surprise, you may need to get a little creative. Making sure they are dressed appropriately could be challenging, so they’ll need to think they are going on a date night or somewhere nice. Most girls don’t want to show up to their proposal (and photoshoot) in sweats.

Since we’ll be getting photos of the ring following the proposal, she’ll probably also want her nails to be manicured. You may want to employ her friends or mom to help pull this off! It could come off as suspicious if you suggest for her to get her nails done. In my experience, when the guy mentions getting a manicure, this is almost always a dead giveaway that the proposal is coming!

Hire an NYC Proposal Photographer

Having a photographer there to capture your proposal in NYC is important so that you have lasting memories of your proposal. By hiring a professional, you can focus on the moment and be present yourself without having to focus on getting photos yourself (or worrying about a family member trying to do it). Because this is such an emotional event, many people have the tendency to black out and not remember anything, funnily enough! Regardless, I’ll be there to capture every reaction. The proposal is the beginning of the next chapter of your life, so it should be documented professionally. Another benefit to hiring a pro is that your photographer will usually take portraits of the two of you afterwards so you’ll have cherished photos to hang in your home and even use as save-the-dates.

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Consider Having a Rehearsal with your NYC Proposal Photographer

Having a walk-through with your NYC proposal photographer, may not always be possible. Mmany of my clients in NYC are traveling from out of town and not available to do this beforehand. In this case, you’ll just want to make sure you are overly communicative about what will happen. However, scheduling a rehearsal with your NYC proposal photographer can help you both feel more comfortable with the logistics of how things will play out and ease your nerves on the day of the proposal.

Plan the Party Following Your NYC Proposal

After the proposal, a celebration will be in order. This can be as intimate as a private dinner for the two of you, or as communal as inviting all of your loved ones to join you in celebrating following the engagement. There are plenty of great restaurants that will rent out a private room for your celebration.

Invite the VIPs

If you do plan to throw a party following the engagement, you’ll need to invite all the VIPs in both your lives. Be sure to give them enough of a heads up that they can plan to be there and travel if needed. At the same time, be careful about telling anyone who you think may let the cat out of the bag and accidentally ruin the surprise!

Have a Plan B

Understanding that some things out of your control and things can go unexpectedly is critical when planning a once in a lifetime event like a marriage proposal. Have a backup plan in case things don’t go exactly as planned: bad weather, road closures, too crowded, etc. As a photographer of live events, I assure you things like this happen all the time! Planning ahead will behoove you.

Frequently Asked Questions I Receive as an NYC Proposal Photographer

How far in advance should I begin planning and booking services?

As soon as possible! I’ve had people book me for proposals as early as 6 months out and as late as 2 weeks out. However, proposal photographers in NYC are often wedding photographers as well, and usually busy on Saturdays. You will have more luck booking a proposal photographer in NYC on any other day of the week.

Will you take photos of us with our family and friends afterwards?

Of course! This is one of my favorite part of proposals – the joining of two families. The celebratory hugs and beaming faces will be something you want to remember forever.